Life Desk :
The adrenaline rush that one experiences during the preparation up to the marriage day dies soon after marriage. The love gets lost in the rush of our monotonous daily routine. Passion, care, tolerance, all go out of the window, making many question if there is indeed love after marriage. Those sweet nothings get replaced by ugly arguments and lack of compassion.
Dr Rupa Batra, an International Celebrity Consultant of Corporate Vaastu Mentor, Feng-Shui and Numerology, Author and a Speaker shares, “The amazing contrast in real and social life today is that where on one hand social networking websites are flooded with pictures of couples having a gala time, the real life says that divorce cases in urban population have increased to a never before level. Feng Shui helps us understand how to identify those loopholes where the energy from the relationship is draining.”
But you can turn around your marriage with the help of sciences such as Feng Shui, numerology and Vastu. There are some simple tricks that can help ease out blocked energies from your marital life. Dr Batra tells us how:
Write your thoughts
It is very important for you to know that you cannot change your partner, or anybody for that matter. One of the biggest reasons for conflict in a marriage is the fact that we wish to change our partner in the way which we feel is correct. However, we forget that the other person has completely different set of ideologies, upbringing and outlook in life. Maybe this difference was the reason why both of you feel in love, but gradually we start hating the difference. We have to make it a thumb rule that we will not try and change any one. But we will find a way out to deal with that change. Get a flower pot, place fresh flowers and with that put in secret messages saying “I respect your opinion but it would be better if you consider mine too.” Not only will the fresh flowers absorb all negativity but the habit of writing and letting your spouse know what’s in your heart will save a lot of time, effort and quarrel.
Right from the day one, we start expecting enormous returns from a relationship where almost nil investment (emotional, mental and physical) has been done. Get a picture of yourself and your hubby when you were not married and get it framed with the picture of your wedding right in front of your bed. It will act as an indicator that life has taken a leap and now it requires lot of investment in the form of love.
A wind chime at the entrance
The person you have married is surrounded with energies of his past life as in his family business etc. You need to add in fresh energies in the form of new memories in order to help wash away the past energies which are obstructing the right flow of love between the two of you. A wind chime right at the entrance will work wonders as wind chime emits music from cylindrical pipes which are designed to emit balanced energies.
Place a picture of butterfly at the entrance
Last but definitely not the least, our stairs or passage is the place where we spend few seconds before entering the house. At times our entrance is blocked with unknown energies coming from the outside world. Picture of a butterfly with a touching motivational message can be placed at the entrance. Butterfly demonstrates how an ugly outlook can be turned into a beautiful one with just genuine efforts. This will help change your thoughts or that of your partner while entering or leaving the house.
-TNN
The adrenaline rush that one experiences during the preparation up to the marriage day dies soon after marriage. The love gets lost in the rush of our monotonous daily routine. Passion, care, tolerance, all go out of the window, making many question if there is indeed love after marriage. Those sweet nothings get replaced by ugly arguments and lack of compassion.
Dr Rupa Batra, an International Celebrity Consultant of Corporate Vaastu Mentor, Feng-Shui and Numerology, Author and a Speaker shares, “The amazing contrast in real and social life today is that where on one hand social networking websites are flooded with pictures of couples having a gala time, the real life says that divorce cases in urban population have increased to a never before level. Feng Shui helps us understand how to identify those loopholes where the energy from the relationship is draining.”
But you can turn around your marriage with the help of sciences such as Feng Shui, numerology and Vastu. There are some simple tricks that can help ease out blocked energies from your marital life. Dr Batra tells us how:
Write your thoughts
It is very important for you to know that you cannot change your partner, or anybody for that matter. One of the biggest reasons for conflict in a marriage is the fact that we wish to change our partner in the way which we feel is correct. However, we forget that the other person has completely different set of ideologies, upbringing and outlook in life. Maybe this difference was the reason why both of you feel in love, but gradually we start hating the difference. We have to make it a thumb rule that we will not try and change any one. But we will find a way out to deal with that change. Get a flower pot, place fresh flowers and with that put in secret messages saying “I respect your opinion but it would be better if you consider mine too.” Not only will the fresh flowers absorb all negativity but the habit of writing and letting your spouse know what’s in your heart will save a lot of time, effort and quarrel.
Right from the day one, we start expecting enormous returns from a relationship where almost nil investment (emotional, mental and physical) has been done. Get a picture of yourself and your hubby when you were not married and get it framed with the picture of your wedding right in front of your bed. It will act as an indicator that life has taken a leap and now it requires lot of investment in the form of love.
A wind chime at the entrance
The person you have married is surrounded with energies of his past life as in his family business etc. You need to add in fresh energies in the form of new memories in order to help wash away the past energies which are obstructing the right flow of love between the two of you. A wind chime right at the entrance will work wonders as wind chime emits music from cylindrical pipes which are designed to emit balanced energies.
Place a picture of butterfly at the entrance
Last but definitely not the least, our stairs or passage is the place where we spend few seconds before entering the house. At times our entrance is blocked with unknown energies coming from the outside world. Picture of a butterfly with a touching motivational message can be placed at the entrance. Butterfly demonstrates how an ugly outlook can be turned into a beautiful one with just genuine efforts. This will help change your thoughts or that of your partner while entering or leaving the house.
-TNN
