AFP, Abu Qash :
For Palestinians, summer is wedding season-time for brides and grooms to celebrate. But for guests, who are expected to help cover the costs, it can mean financial misery.
The tradition of “naqout” encourages those invited to donate cash to help pay for the often lavish feasts.
They pick up an envelope, fill it with cash, usually sign it and place it in a box strategically placed at the entrance.
Technically the donations are voluntary, but hosts take a dim view of those failing to meet expectations.
Some Palestinians see the tradition as a way to share the costs of important community events. But others say the social pressure to contribute pushes them into dire financial straights.
Murad Shriteh, 46, from near the West Bank city of Ramallah, said he feels swamped after being invited to more than one wedding a week.
He spent $400, nearly half his monthly salary, in just two weeks of weddings, he told AFP at a wedding party in the West Bank town of Birzeit.
“I have already received several invitations for the rest of August, but I think I will refuse a few,” he said.
The West Bank sees more than 25,000 weddings a year, according to Palestinian statistics.
Social pressures and tradition mean that most are extravagant celebrations, with much of the community invited.
For Palestinians, summer is wedding season-time for brides and grooms to celebrate. But for guests, who are expected to help cover the costs, it can mean financial misery.
The tradition of “naqout” encourages those invited to donate cash to help pay for the often lavish feasts.
They pick up an envelope, fill it with cash, usually sign it and place it in a box strategically placed at the entrance.
Technically the donations are voluntary, but hosts take a dim view of those failing to meet expectations.
Some Palestinians see the tradition as a way to share the costs of important community events. But others say the social pressure to contribute pushes them into dire financial straights.
Murad Shriteh, 46, from near the West Bank city of Ramallah, said he feels swamped after being invited to more than one wedding a week.
He spent $400, nearly half his monthly salary, in just two weeks of weddings, he told AFP at a wedding party in the West Bank town of Birzeit.
“I have already received several invitations for the rest of August, but I think I will refuse a few,” he said.
The West Bank sees more than 25,000 weddings a year, according to Palestinian statistics.
Social pressures and tradition mean that most are extravagant celebrations, with much of the community invited.
